The Interface Is the Argument
Software no longer persuades us with words. It persuades us with defaults.

Every product ships with a worldview. Most of it lives in the settings nobody opens.
A default is a claim about what is normal. Change one, and you change the behaviour of millions of people who never noticed a decision was being made on their behalf.
This is why design debates feel disproportionately heated to outsiders. The participants understand something the rest of us feel only vaguely: that the argument was settled before the conversation started, at the moment someone chose which toggle would be on.
The useful question is not whether a tool is neutral. It is whose convenience the defaults were tuned for.